I will not find it a LEAST offensive when a woman deliberately leaves her windows open and then try to chastise you “will you stop staring at me like that” I mean who cares about her open window- I can get paid service with a lot better quality (if I wanted to – not that I wanted to in fact for the matter of my choice ) than looking at your frozen yoghurt . It happened once at a McDonald’s in SF City by the pier where this woman came walked in with bikinis and stood in line. I for one was continuously gazing down in her direction ,but past her (and before she got there) , at my Car . I barely coughed up the change for the meter across but having no choice – fed the greedy thing -,whatever breadcrumbs I had, so I could steal a quick moment at the Mac . And the police over there is definitely a LOT more interested in ticketing you for expensive legal trivia ( few $100 bucks ) like expired meters ( and whatever else they can lay their hands on that is “bonus” for them like for e.g. having too much tint ) at the smallest excuse, than maybe catch someone breaking in your car for a wallet. So there I was staring down at my car and this woman blasted loudly “will you stop staring at me like that ” . I felt so embarrassed – I just kept quite for half minute before I could regain my poise and then replied back with my woofers plugged in “Who cares about staring at you … STOP YOUR FALSE ACCUSATIONS on me ..I am not your ex and this is not a family court ” . The men with here were almost tightening their fists -and then she kept cussing about me being “disrespectful ” . I told her to STFU and I am not afraid – she can call anyone. The security guard came over- and she started her “tearful drama “…after I told him what was happening and others are witness – he took that crowd by the side- told them a few things and left. SO STARE – IT IS YOUR RIGHT – BUT KNOW HOW TO BARE THE STARE . THERE IS NO LAW PREVENTING YOU FROM USING YOUR EYES – “RIGHTFULLY” THAT IS .

[Taken from a comment on a LinkedIn article](https://www.linkedin.com/today/post/article/20140505122803-20017018-but-you-asked-me-to-stare-at-your-tattoos?trk=tod-posts-post1-ptlt)